YOU FOUND ME.
some goodbyes happen once.
others keep changing shape.
others keep changing shape.
A LIVING BODY OF WORK
THE ANATOMY
OF GOODBYES
OF GOODBYES
I thought a goodbye ended
when you stopped missing someone.
I was wrong.
The Anatomy of Goodbyes traces endings as transformation,
and the ever-changing landscape of finding yourself
after something you thought would last.
THE FIRST CHAPTER
GOODGrief
“I have to survive the goodbye.”
GOODGrief took modern heartbreak through
the five stages of grief: losing the person,
the future I imagined, and the version of myself
that only existed inside that love.
DENIAL ·
ANGER ·
BARGAINING ·
DEPRESSION ·
ACCEPTANCE
and then one day,
I realized I wasn't sad anymore.
I realized I wasn't sad anymore.
I THOUGHT THAT MEANT
I WAS DONE.
I WAS DONE.
CLOSER TO THE SURFACE
MUSEic
“I think I'm back.”
The goodbye was about losing them.
MUSEic is about remembering who TF I am and letting her be hot, curious, complicated, and a little bit trouble.
MUSEic is about remembering who TF I am and letting her be hot, curious, complicated, and a little bit trouble.
I started wanting
things again. Late nights.
Loud music.
Bare skin.
Bad ideas.
I danced like I had nothing left to mourn.
things again. Late nights.
Loud music.
Bare skin.
Bad ideas.
I danced like I had nothing left to mourn.
I flirted.
Not because
I needed to be wanted.
I just remembered how much fun it was to want.
Turns out,
I still had an appetite.
I just remembered how much fun it was to want.
Turns out,
I still had an appetite.
THE NEXT WAVE HAS A NAME
ADESSA BLU
Somewhere between losing what I loved
and remembering what I wanted,
something new surfaced.
a new wave is coming.
let it be your MUSE.
let it be your MUSE.
I got my spark back.
Then I started noticing
what kept dimming it.
what kept dimming it.
Apparently,
getting over them
was only half the story.
TO BE CONTINUED...
START AT THE BEGINNING
GOODGrief
Before the new wave,
there was the goodbye.
Five stages of grief. One story about learning to carry love differently.
Five stages of grief. One story about learning to carry love differently.
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